Russ of the BML
10:43 Fri Nov 6
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Surely you knew what she was like before you married her?
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tanman
10:40 Fri Nov 6
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You might be right re the 50 as there has been such a short time being married. Negotiation as much as possible is the key.
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lab
10:12 Fri Nov 6
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tanman, she does have her own place though so it’s not as though she will be homeless. The courts will want him to keep his place without him having to increase his mortgage vastly. The court will want to know reason for divorce at such a short marriage and tbh his reasons seem very woolly . Agreed , he mustn’t try and hide anything ,that won’t wash well . If they both want a divorce perhaps the courts will go with it,but fifty fifty seems harsh. There’s no kids . The courts won’t wanna see him on his knees.
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tanman
9:53 Fri Nov 6
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You will be asked to provide evidence of property and if you are married then transfer of ownership to your prents will not wash. Better to just be as amicable as possible and just say straight away it is a 50/50 split. Otherwise you will just end up having needless court appearances. Just one day in court ends up costing £1500 for your brief on the day (plus VAT. And costs associated with the papers leading up to the day. I seriously would not advise against doing anything to drag your heels and limit what she gets as if you lie try and hide things you could then end up with being taken to court further. It is a costrly mistake but the best thing to do is take your medicine and get it sorted ASAP to limit the legel fees.
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Dandy Lyon
9:46 Fri Nov 6
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2919?
Well, at least you gave it a good go...
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yogib
1:38 Fri Nov 6
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Cunt her in the bastard!
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joyo
12:16 Fri Nov 6
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Solicitors will get involved and it's gonna cost you alot of dosh
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only1billybonds
11:58 Thu Nov 5
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Roby.
Is she a lunatic in bed?
I only ask as in my experience, the more unhinged ones have an anything goes policy on the sack.
I know this is unhelpful but this is WHO so its valid. :-)
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Roby
11:36 Thu Nov 5
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Good advice on here as usual amongst some genuinely funny piss takes too which I take with the “good humour” they were meant...
Lived together for close to a year before we were married.
Once you tie the knot though it’s sometimes a case that the “on the best behaviour” stops.
I love her a lot so would prefer to work through it but sometimes it depends on what you are prepared to put up with...
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Jasnik
10:54 Thu Nov 5
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Have you told her you are looking for a divorce?
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riosleftsock
10:39 Thu Nov 5
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Roby
The best thing to do is to ask her what she wants out of the divorce to put this behind you both and stress that you want to see her start again and be happy.
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Off The Shin
10:26 Thu Nov 5
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Before you go down the divorce route are you 100% sure there is no chance of fixing things between you both? Have you tried wiping your knob on her?
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Too Much Too Young
10:17 Thu Nov 5
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Roby,
I'm sure the wealth you bring into the marriage then makes it joint.
Therefore, tot up both you and hers wealth and divide that by 2, less lawyer fees. Cheapest way for that is via mediation and looking around 3-4k for that, plus court fees, another 500.
good luck SON.
The above is what would happen if you can keep her away from normal lawyers. You need her to agree to the mediation route...ie.minimum lawyer fees = more money for the pair of you.
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hammer205
10:14 Thu Nov 5
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Speak to citizens advice bureau
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lab
10:11 Thu Nov 5
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Ag!
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Lee Trundle
10:10 Thu Nov 5
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"The quickest divorces are if one party has commited and admits adultery"
I have a cunning plan, Roby. How fit is your wife, exactly?
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violator
10:09 Thu Nov 5
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No link, site..dogs
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only1billybonds
10:00 Thu Nov 5
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Convert to a religion of peace.
Stone her to death.
Walk away whistling 'Bubbles'
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riosleftsock
9:57 Thu Nov 5
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Convert to islam, say "I divorce you" three times in arabic.
Chuck her out. Job done.
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Takashi Miike
9:52 Thu Nov 5
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Roby, how long was you with her before the marraige?
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Sven Roeder
9:51 Thu Nov 5
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Get hold of a positive covid test and put her name on it
Then you could machine gun her in the middle of Oxford St & she will still be in the covid death figures.
Job done
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